I Do and I Don't https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow Almost Professional Marriage Advice Mon, 15 Mar 2021 18:15:50 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.8.1 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/cropped-showpic-2-32x32.jpg I Do and I Don't https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow 32 32 Cat Skinner and Joel van Vliet give marriage advice even though one of them is grossly unqualified. I Do and I Don't yes episodic I Do and I Don't acrylicnoise@gmail.com acrylicnoise@gmail.com (I Do and I Don't) almost professional marriage advice I Do and I Don't https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/showpic.jpg https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow Weekly 168572202 EPISODE 68: A Bath and a Hot Therapist https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-68-a-bath-and-a-hot-therapist Mon, 15 Mar 2021 07:33:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=580 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-68-a-bath-and-a-hot-therapist#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-68-a-bath-and-a-hot-therapist/feed 0 <p>What happens when you catch feels for your therapist? What are the most important questions…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-68-a-bath-and-a-hot-therapist">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 68: A Bath and a Hot Therapist</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-68-a-bath-and-a-hot-therapist">EPISODE 68: A Bath and a Hot Therapist</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> What happens when you catch feels for your therapist? What are the most important questions to ask yourself before you consider marriage? How much does size actually matter? These listener questions are the jumping off point for this week’s meander through intimate relationship terrain. Joel and Cat give somewhat qualified (but always pithy) sex and relationship advice.

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EPISODE 67: I Don’t Know Which Hole We’re IN https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-67 Mon, 08 Mar 2021 08:30:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=575 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-67#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-67/feed 0 <p>Joel and Cat discuss how to create parameters and protocol around pandemic dating, how couples…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-67">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 67: I Don’t Know Which Hole We’re IN</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-67">EPISODE 67: I Don’t Know Which Hole We’re IN</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel and Cat discuss how to create parameters and protocol around pandemic dating, how couples can create a sex schedule that suits everyone, and whether or not attraction can deepen as you get to know a new lover.

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EPISODE 66: Yeah, I’m Into Sex https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-66 Mon, 01 Mar 2021 08:44:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=569 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-66#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-66/feed 0 <p>When the new person you’re seeing tells you they don’t want their ex to find…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-66">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 66: Yeah, I’m Into Sex</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-66">EPISODE 66: Yeah, I’m Into Sex</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> When the new person you’re seeing tells you they don’t want their ex to find out about you, is it a red flag? Which boundaries should be set in the early days of relationships? Joel and Cat help listeners navigate the uncertain terrain of burgeoning love. When the new person you’re seeing tells you they don’t want their ex to find out about you, is it a red flag? Which boundaries should be set in the early days of relationships? Joel and Cat help listeners navigate the uncertain terrain of burgeoning love. 

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EPISODE 65: Still Not Naked https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-65 Mon, 22 Feb 2021 08:30:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=558 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-65#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-65/feed 0 <p>This week, Joel and Cat offer up some questions to pose to your partner to…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-65">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 65: Still Not Naked</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-65">EPISODE 65: Still Not Naked</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> This week, Joel and Cat offer up some questions to pose to your partner to help deepen your connection, they help a listener cultivate intimacy with her husband though his meds have taken sex off the table, and they navigate a demi-sexual listener away from the ‘friend zone’.

Here’s the link to a list of questions that are rumoured to lead to love.

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EPISODE 64: Zoom Dating 101 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-64 Mon, 15 Feb 2021 08:27:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=553 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-64#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-64/feed 0 <p>In this episode, Cat gushes about a memorable Zoom date and listeners send in their…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-64">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 64: Zoom Dating 101</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-64">EPISODE 64: Zoom Dating 101</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> In this episode, Cat gushes about a memorable Zoom date and listeners send in their lockdown dating ideas. Joel and Cat decide whether or not a listener should tell a friend that they have a crush on them, and Cat gets real clear on how to ask your lover for what you want.

Here’s a link to a list of virtual zoo, museum and attraction tours.

Here’s a link to the Netflix party extension, now called Teleparty.

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EPISODE 63: Advice On A Device https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-63 Mon, 08 Feb 2021 13:55:46 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=547 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-63#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-63/feed 0 <p>It’s abundantly clear that Joel is growing restless with this podcast and needs things to…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-63">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 63: Advice On A Device</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-63">EPISODE 63: Advice On A Device</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> It’s abundantly clear that Joel is growing restless with this podcast and needs things to be shaken up. Despite this, he still manages to pull through and weigh in on issues like how adolescent sexual encounters can set the stage for adult sexual experience, and best practices for conflict resolution with your loved one during lockdown. Cat has one or two insightful thoughts on inter-cultural dating and the best circumstances under which to shed your virginity. 

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EPISODE 62: What’s In The Sauce? https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-62 Mon, 01 Feb 2021 08:00:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=542 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-62#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-62/feed 0 <p>How can playing with power dynamics enhance your sex life and your relationship at large? …</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-62">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 62: What’s In The Sauce?</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-62">EPISODE 62: What’s In The Sauce?</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> How can playing with power dynamics enhance your sex life and your relationship at large?  Why can’t vibrant women in their 50’s and 60’s attract men in their age bracket? How can I change my wife’s bathroom habits so they’re less disgusting? Joel and Cat artfully answer these questions PLUS Joel gets super graphic about asking for certain sex acts and Cat gets explicit about a personal fantasy – just another Monday at I Do and I Don’t.

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EPISODE 61:Next Level Sex Ed https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-61 Mon, 25 Jan 2021 08:19:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=537 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-61#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-61/feed 0 <p>This week, Cat and Joel talk about how to empower your teens with next-level sex…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-61">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 61:Next Level Sex Ed</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-61">EPISODE 61:Next Level Sex Ed</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> This week, Cat and Joel talk about how to empower your teens with next-level sex education, and Joel offers up a step-by-step tutorial on how to ‘do the sex’. They also chat about the practice of celibacy in the face of the pandemic, and how to keep your sex life alive when you’re in lockdown with your partner.

As promised, here are the links that Cat mentions in this episode:

Shan Boodram, @shanboody on Instagram

She Comes First & He Comes Next, Ian Kerner

Come As You Are, Emily Nagoski

Guide to Getting It On, Paul Jonnaides

OMGyes

https://www.goodreads.com/list/show/15121.Best_Nonfiction_Sex_Books_Ever_

https://www.scarleteen.com/

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Episode 60:Prioritize Your Pussy https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-60 Mon, 18 Jan 2021 08:02:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=530 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-60#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-60/feed 0 <p>Cat and Joel talk about the media-driven narrative around vaginas and shame, the complexities of…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-60">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 60:Prioritize Your Pussy</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-60">Episode 60:Prioritize Your Pussy</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Cat and Joel talk about the media-driven narrative around vaginas and shame, the complexities of human scent and chemistry, how true intimacy is built in relationships, and the idea of keeping stepparents in the picture after the adult relationship ends.

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EPISODE 59: Loving In LOCKDOWN https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-59 Mon, 11 Jan 2021 08:35:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=509 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-59#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-59/feed 0 <p>Joel and Cat talk about what to do when one partner is carrying more of…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-59">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 59: Loving In LOCKDOWN</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-59">EPISODE 59: Loving In LOCKDOWN</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel and Cat talk about what to do when one partner is carrying more of the emotional load, how to declare interest in someone you briefly dated and would like to date again, and they take on the fascinating topic of male chastity devices.

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EPISODE 58: Quelling the Constant Ache https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-58 Mon, 04 Jan 2021 08:55:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=502 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-58#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-58/feed 0 <p>In the first episode of 2021, Cat and Joel explore the parameters of girl code…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-58">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 58: Quelling the Constant Ache</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-58">EPISODE 58: Quelling the Constant Ache</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> In the first episode of 2021, Cat and Joel explore the parameters of girl code and when it’s okay to date a friend’s ex. They also deep dive into dating outside of your community, how to communicate with your partner around wanting more sexual connection, and how to feel fulfilled while embracing the single life. 

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EPISODE 57: Church of the latter Day Taints https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-5 Mon, 28 Dec 2020 08:20:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=498 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-5#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-5/feed 0 <p>Joel continues his crusade to turn the podcast into a religious space while Cat places…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-5">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 57: Church of the latter Day Taints</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-5">EPISODE 57: Church of the latter Day Taints</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel continues his crusade to turn the podcast into a religious space while Cat places her faith in their ability to talk about things like how to manage a foreskin during head,  male partners who can’t step up when asked by the person who loves them, and what to do when you discover someone else’s thong in your casual lover’s bed.

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Joel continues his crusade to turn the podcast into a religious space while Cat places…Read MoreEPISODE 57: Church of the latter Day Taints Joel continues his crusade to turn the podcast into a religious space while Cat places…Read MoreEPISODE 57: Church of the latter Day Taints I Do and I Don't 46:30 498
EPISODE 56: Talk Dirty To Me https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-56 Mon, 21 Dec 2020 08:30:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=492 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-56#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-56/feed 0 <p>Hide your kids! NSFW! In what is perhaps the most obscene episode to-date, Joel and…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-56">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 56: Talk Dirty To Me</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-56">EPISODE 56: Talk Dirty To Me</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Hide your kids! NSFW! In what is perhaps the most obscene episode to-date, Joel and Cat offer some comprehensive and outrageously detailed tips for mastering the art of dirty talk. There are some other points covered and additional listener questions fielded, but honestly, I’ve just listened to the playback and I’m so distracted, I don’t remember what those were.

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EPISODE 55: Deep in the SH*T https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-55 Mon, 14 Dec 2020 08:37:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=488 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-55#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-55/feed 0 <p>What’s the best way forward when you’re a newly single dad in his 40’s and…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-55">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 55: Deep in the SH*T</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-55">EPISODE 55: Deep in the SH*T</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> What’s the best way forward when you’re a newly single dad in his 40’s and you’ve been dealing with years of narcissistic abuse? Joel and Cat try to help with this and other intimate relationship conundrums like whether or not great sex can make you fall in love (and Cat reveals WAY too much), and when to have the chat about wanting to keep things casual. 

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EPISODE 54: Move Out Son https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-54 Mon, 07 Dec 2020 08:06:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=480 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-54#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-54/feed 0 <p>Here’s what happens when Joel and Cat are asked to share the most profound things…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-54">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 54: Move Out Son</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-54">EPISODE 54: Move Out Son</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Here’s what happens when Joel and Cat are asked to share the most profound things they’ve learned in intimate relationships, (Hint: they talk a lot about God and sex). Also, they reveal the only thing to do when your partner’s father walks in on you having sex, and how to deal when your partner moves in and displays old photos of their ex in your home.

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EPISODE 53:Deflowering Satan https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/epsiode-53 Mon, 30 Nov 2020 08:10:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=476 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/epsiode-53#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/epsiode-53/feed 0 <p>At a listener’s request, Cat and Joel share how they both want to be loved.…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/epsiode-53">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 53:Deflowering Satan</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/epsiode-53">EPISODE 53:Deflowering Satan</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> At a listener’s request, Cat and Joel share how they both want to be loved. Then they chat about rebuilding trust after infidelity and how to deal with a partner who can’t make introductions. Oh, and Cat unleashes a fiery tidbit from her sexual history which may have sealed her entry into the gates of hell.

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Episode 52: Antiseptic Swipes https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/epsiode-52 Mon, 23 Nov 2020 08:47:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=472 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/epsiode-52#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/epsiode-52/feed 0 <p>This week Cat and Joel dish out advice to a listener who worries that she…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/epsiode-52">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 52: Antiseptic Swipes</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/epsiode-52">Episode 52: Antiseptic Swipes</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> This week Cat and Joel dish out advice to a listener who worries that she might be fetishized by a new partner. They also talk about how to navigate the friend zone with an ex another listener still has feelings for and they give their best advice for online dating in these strange and unpredictable times.

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EPISODE 51: Wagging Tongues https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-51 Mon, 16 Nov 2020 08:23:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=467 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-51#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-51/feed 0 <p>Joel and Cat spontaneously dive into TV and Movie couples with complex relationship dynamics. Then,…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-51">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 51: Wagging Tongues</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-51">EPISODE 51: Wagging Tongues</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel and Cat spontaneously dive into TV and Movie couples with complex relationship dynamics. Then, they advise a listener who may or may not have busted a pal’s man having an affair. The final question of this episode tackles when one person drops the ‘L’ bomb and is met with total silence.

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EPISODE 50: Secrets to Longevity https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-50 Mon, 09 Nov 2020 08:36:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=463 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-50#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-50/feed 0 <p>In this 50th episode special, Joel and Cat share listeners’ secrets to long-term relationship success.…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-50">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 50: Secrets to Longevity</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-50">EPISODE 50: Secrets to Longevity</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> In this 50th episode special, Joel and Cat share listeners’ secrets to long-term relationship success. If the sterling advice of these two hosts isn’t enough to keep the fires burning, the nuggets contained in this episode will surely save your love.

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EPISODE 49: Word to Your Mother https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-49 Mon, 05 Oct 2020 07:34:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=458 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-49#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-49/feed 0 <p>Cat and Joel talk about how to navigate interested parties when you’re fresh out of…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-49">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 49: Word to Your Mother</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-49">EPISODE 49: Word to Your Mother</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Cat and Joel talk about how to navigate interested parties when you’re fresh out of relationship land, what to do when your would-be in-laws meddle in your private matters, and how to create safety when you and your live-in partner have different views on the pandemic.

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EPISODE 48: Aligning Attachment Styles https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-48 Mon, 28 Sep 2020 07:20:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=453 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-48#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-48/feed 0 <p>Joel and Cat use their expertise to tackle complex relationship questions with grace and wisdom.…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-48">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 48: Aligning Attachment Styles</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-48">EPISODE 48: Aligning Attachment Styles</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel and Cat use their expertise to tackle complex relationship questions with grace and wisdom. This week’s episode features the following conundrums: How do you take back your life after living in the cycle of unrequited love? Can two people with opposing attachment styles ever get on the same page? What’s the best way to to identify where one needs to do their own work in order to show up fully in relationship? Have a listen, and share be sure to send in your questions for future episodes.

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EPISODE 47: Flings With Friends https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-47 Mon, 21 Sep 2020 07:30:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=448 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-47#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-47/feed 0 <p>It’s okay to be a mess sometimes, and Joel and Cat are happy to help…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-47">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 47: Flings With Friends</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-47">EPISODE 47: Flings With Friends</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> It’s okay to be a mess sometimes, and Joel and Cat are happy to help with clean up. This week they tackle religious conversion to appease the future in-laws, the difference between men and women when it comes to processing a break up, whether or not to stay friends after a fling. 

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Episode 46: Loving In The Moment https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-46 Mon, 14 Sep 2020 07:43:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=442 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-46#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-46/feed 0 <p>Joel and Cat discuss meeting the right person at the wrong time, having to police…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-46">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 46: Loving In The Moment</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-46">Episode 46: Loving In The Moment</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel and Cat discuss meeting the right person at the wrong time, having to police your partner’s language around the kids, and knowing when enough is enough. Real listeners send their anonymous questions to two people who give almost-professional advice on intimate relationships.

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Episode 45: Steam Your Yoni https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-45-steam-your-yoni Mon, 07 Sep 2020 07:52:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=437 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-45-steam-your-yoni#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-45-steam-your-yoni/feed 0 <p>In this week’s episode Joel and Cat take on dominance and dating, how to navigate…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-45-steam-your-yoni">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 45: Steam Your Yoni</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-45-steam-your-yoni">Episode 45: Steam Your Yoni</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> In this week’s episode Joel and Cat take on dominance and dating, how to navigate a night on the town while still living with your recent ex, and more ways to boost your libido.  There can never be enough info on how to increase the amount of sex people are having, but when listeners ask, Joel and Cat will always answer.

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Episode 44: Butt, Yeah! https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-44-butt-yeah Mon, 31 Aug 2020 07:01:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=433 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-44-butt-yeah#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-44-butt-yeah/feed 0 <p>What to do when one partner wants to open up the relationship and the other…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-44-butt-yeah">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 44: Butt, Yeah!</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-44-butt-yeah">Episode 44: Butt, Yeah!</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> What to do when one partner wants to open up the relationship and the other doesn’t, how to come clean about a drunken transgression and some elaborate reflections on anal sex. Cat and Joel tackle listener questions on intimate relationships and marriage with slow, careful consideration and a healthy dose of anecdotal lubricant.

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Episode 43: The Horror of Dinner Parties https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-43 Mon, 24 Aug 2020 07:43:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=428 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-43#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-43/feed 0 <p>Joel and Cat offer almost-expert advice on intimate relationships and in this week’s episode they…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-43">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 43: The Horror of Dinner Parties</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-43">Episode 43: The Horror of Dinner Parties</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel and Cat offer almost-expert advice on intimate relationships and in this week’s episode they tackle how to get motivated to be more social for your partner’s sake, exploring relationship possibilities with a good friend, and the art of enthusiastic fellatio.

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Episode 42: The Best Nugget https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-42-the-best-nugget Mon, 17 Aug 2020 07:32:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=424 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-42-the-best-nugget#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-42-the-best-nugget/feed 0 <p>Taking separate vacations, building trust in a partnership after a lifetime of being cheated on,…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-42-the-best-nugget">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 42: The Best Nugget</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-42-the-best-nugget">Episode 42: The Best Nugget</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Taking separate vacations, building trust in a partnership after a lifetime of being cheated on, and a cunnilingus primer that will step up anyone’s game. Joel and Cat deftly weave their way through listener’s questions about intimate relationships without ever getting tongue-tied.

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Episode 41: Noblization Isn’t a Word https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-41-noblization-isnt-a-word Mon, 10 Aug 2020 07:25:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=420 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-41-noblization-isnt-a-word#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-41-noblization-isnt-a-word/feed 0 <p>Cat’s back on her game doling out solid advice for intimate relationships as she and…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-41-noblization-isnt-a-word">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 41: Noblization Isn’t a Word</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-41-noblization-isnt-a-word">Episode 41: Noblization Isn’t a Word</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Cat’s back on her game doling out solid advice for intimate relationships as she and Joel tackle addressing toxic relationship behaviours, relationship insecurity, and getting out of the COVID sex slump. Also, Joel says some funny things which might make you laugh. You should listen to this one, and tell all your friends.

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Episode 40: A Little Game https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-40 Mon, 03 Aug 2020 07:25:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=414 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-40#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-40/feed 0 <p>Joel and Cat make an appeal to the LGBTQ2+ community, and then they explore how…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-40">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 40: A Little Game</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-40">Episode 40: A Little Game</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel and Cat make an appeal to the LGBTQ2+ community, and then they explore how to approach injecting new life into sex when one spouse is more adventurous. Cat reveals a fun game for exploring fantasies, and she and Joel discuss how to set a sexual precedent and what makes for a really fun date.

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EPISODE 39: Sex With the Ex https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-39 Mon, 27 Jul 2020 07:30:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=409 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-39#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-39/feed 0 <p>Joel drops a personal bombshell, then he and Cat discuss why you should stop having…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-39">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 39: Sex With the Ex</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-39">EPISODE 39: Sex With the Ex</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel drops a personal bombshell, then he and Cat discuss why you should stop having sex with your ex, how women can enjoy casual sex without being disrespected, and the generational gap when dating someone older.

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Episode 38: with Jenny Arndt! https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-38-with-jenny-arndt Mon, 20 Jul 2020 07:30:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=406 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-38-with-jenny-arndt#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-38-with-jenny-arndt/feed 0 <p>Today we give you a very special episode of I Do and I Don’t with…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-38-with-jenny-arndt">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 38: with Jenny Arndt!</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-38-with-jenny-arndt">Episode 38: with Jenny Arndt!</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Today we give you a very special episode of I Do and I Don’t with our special guest, Jenny Arndt. Jenny joins us to talk about the sacred nature of masculine and feminine energy, and how those dynamics play out in relationship and sex.

Mama, life-giver, death-dealer, love-maker, web-weaver, story-teller, truth-speaker, peace-seeker.

Jenny has been exploring what it is to be a human in this world for 42 years. 

As a teacher, coach and health-care practitioner, she has been supporting others to discover their own individual path to self-healing and personal freedom since 2004. With a passion for connecting people to the power of their own bodies and energy, Jenny has been on a mission to understand the dynamics of human relationships and how we interact with our environment and each other. As a woman and mother she has spent the last 10 years exploring the feminine principle and it’s beauty and relevance in our present world. She currently works with women individually and in groups, connecting them to their own sensuality and strength. 

Here’s how you can find Jenny:

Instagram: @jennyarndt  Facebook: iamjennyarndt@facebook.com 

And here are some additional resources on the divine feminine:

I am a lover of books and have leaned heavily into them in my exploration of the feminine and how it interacts with the masculine. Here are my favourites.

The Path of the Empress / Christine Li and Ulia Krautwald

A Woman’s Worth / Marianne Williamson 

Dancing in the Flames / Marianne Woodman and Elinor Dickson

Shakti Rising / Chinnaiyan

Goddesses in Everywoman / Jean Shinoda Bolen

Circle of Stones / Judith Durek

Wild Mercy / Mirabai Starr

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Episode 37: Teen Special! https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-37-teen-special Mon, 13 Jul 2020 07:28:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=400 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-37-teen-special#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-37-teen-special/feed 0 <p>In another special edition of I Do and I Don’t Joel and Cat take on…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-37-teen-special">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 37: Teen Special!</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-37-teen-special">Episode 37: Teen Special!</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> In another special edition of I Do and I Don’t Joel and Cat take on relationship and sex questions from teens. Listen in for  tips on handling difficult conversations, approaching connection with vulnerability, executing conscious breakups and navigating the complex waters of first-time love.

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EPISODE 36: The Madonna and Whore https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-36-the-madonna-and-whore Mon, 06 Jul 2020 07:01:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=396 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-36-the-madonna-and-whore#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-36-the-madonna-and-whore/feed 0 <p>What’s the appropriate amount of time to wait after a breakup before getting back into…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-36-the-madonna-and-whore">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 36: The Madonna and Whore</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-36-the-madonna-and-whore">EPISODE 36: The Madonna and Whore</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> What’s the appropriate amount of time to wait after a breakup before getting back into the dating pool? Joel and Cat attempt to offer some tips around getting back out there. Then Cat asks the eternal question, “why can’t I be both nurturer and sexual beast?” Plus a valuable demonstration of intentional Imago conversation to take communicating through conflict to the next level.

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EPISODE 35: Edging > Orgasm? https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-35-edging-orgasm Mon, 29 Jun 2020 07:28:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=391 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-35-edging-orgasm#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-35-edging-orgasm/feed 0 <p>Joel coaches Cat on dating in COVID times (read, tries to pimp her out), then…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-35-edging-orgasm">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 35: Edging > Orgasm?</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-35-edging-orgasm">EPISODE 35: Edging > Orgasm?</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel coaches Cat on dating in COVID times (read, tries to pimp her out), then he and Cat take on introducing a new partner to your teenage kids, creative ways to enjoy sexual connection without orgasm and the evolution of desire.

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Episode 34: How to Kiss https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-34-how-to-kiss Mon, 22 Jun 2020 07:30:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=385 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-34-how-to-kiss#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-34-how-to-kiss/feed 0 <p>Bad kissing, connecting when you’re not in the mood, standing with your partner in their…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-34-how-to-kiss">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 34: How to Kiss</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-34-how-to-kiss">Episode 34: How to Kiss</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Bad kissing, connecting when you’re not in the mood, standing with your partner in their darkness; it’s a slobbery, touchy, broody episode where Cat and Joel help listeners keep their connections going strong.

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Episode 33: Cat is a Great Guru! https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-33-cats-a-great-guru Mon, 15 Jun 2020 07:31:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=367 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-33-cats-a-great-guru#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-33-cats-a-great-guru/feed 0 <p>Cat has a crisis of relationship counselling faith, one listener feels like they can’t make…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-33-cats-a-great-guru">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 33: Cat is a Great Guru!</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-33-cats-a-great-guru">Episode 33: Cat is a Great Guru!</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Cat has a crisis of relationship counselling faith, one listener feels like they can’t make plans that please their partner, another struggles to make peace with their belly, and Joel and Cat weigh in on possible reasons for finding a condom in your partner’s pocket when you aren’t using them anymore.

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Episode 32: Kids Ask the Darnedest Questions https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-32-kids-special Mon, 08 Jun 2020 07:30:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=353 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-32-kids-special#comments https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-32-kids-special/feed 1 <p>Here’s a very special edition of I Do and I Don’t! These questions about marriage…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-32-kids-special">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 32: Kids Ask the Darnedest Questions</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-32-kids-special">Episode 32: Kids Ask the Darnedest Questions</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Here’s a very special edition of I Do and I Don’t! These questions about marriage and relationships come from people way too young to be listening to this podcast. Don’t worry, we kept it (mostly) clean.

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EPISODE 31: Getting Choked Up/Out https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-31 Mon, 01 Jun 2020 07:30:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=333 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-31#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-31/feed 0 <p>Why houseplants are better than kids, when to worry about late-night texts blowing up your…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-31">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">EPISODE 31: Getting Choked Up/Out</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-31">EPISODE 31: Getting Choked Up/Out</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Why houseplants are better than kids, when to worry about late-night texts blowing up your partner’s phone, how to administer a prostate massage, and why choking has become a popular form of foreplay. Joel and Cat promise that things will never get boring on their marriage and relationship podcast.

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Episode 30: Mentality of a Nudist https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-30-mentality-of-a-nudist Mon, 25 May 2020 07:15:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=243 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-30-mentality-of-a-nudist#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-30-mentality-of-a-nudist/feed 0 <p>Joel and Cat dispel any notion that their relationship is more than strictly professional. They…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-30-mentality-of-a-nudist">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 30: Mentality of a Nudist</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-30-mentality-of-a-nudist">Episode 30: Mentality of a Nudist</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel and Cat dispel any notion that their relationship is more than strictly professional. They also address what to do when you learn your husband got naked with another dude. Cat gets real specific about her sexual fantasies. The dynamic duo chat about what creates depth in relationship and they weigh in on pandemic breakup regret.

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Episode 29: COVID in the Kitchen https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-29-covid-in-the-kitchen Mon, 18 May 2020 07:04:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=204 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-29-covid-in-the-kitchen#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-29-covid-in-the-kitchen/feed 0 <p>Joel gets bonkers with kitchen appliance metaphors as he and Cat discuss ending a marriage…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-29-covid-in-the-kitchen">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 29: COVID in the Kitchen</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-29-covid-in-the-kitchen">Episode 29: COVID in the Kitchen</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel gets bonkers with kitchen appliance metaphors as he and Cat discuss ending a marriage in a pandemic. They also help a listener who is crushing on a colleague (who may or may not be Joel), and examine how to help an over-achieving spouse slow down and appreciate life.

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Episode 28: The Pain Block https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-28-the-pain-block Mon, 11 May 2020 07:19:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=174 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-28-the-pain-block#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-28-the-pain-block/feed 0 <p>Joel and Cat help navigate online dating that gets too sexual too fast, and weigh…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-28-the-pain-block">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 28: The Pain Block</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-28-the-pain-block">Episode 28: The Pain Block</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel and Cat help navigate online dating that gets too sexual too fast, and weigh in on physical distance and masturbation. They also share their best tips for getting over a breakup, and offer advice for dealing with a partner who’s developing a serious hoarding problem.

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Episode 27: Cup Overfloweth https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-27-cup-overfloweth Mon, 04 May 2020 07:20:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=170 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-27-cup-overfloweth#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-27-cup-overfloweth/feed 0 <p>Joel and Cat explore how to build emotional intimacy, relationships where managing alcohol becomes a…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-27-cup-overfloweth">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 27: Cup Overfloweth</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-27-cup-overfloweth">Episode 27: Cup Overfloweth</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel and Cat explore how to build emotional intimacy, relationships where managing alcohol becomes a challenge, and how to manage when your spouse is no longer attractive to you.

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Episode 26: Popcorn Cake https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-26-popcorn-cake Mon, 27 Apr 2020 07:16:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=166 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-26-popcorn-cake#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-26-popcorn-cake/feed 0 <p>This week’s episode covers the dangers of assuming a new prospect’s bedroom dynamic based on…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-26-popcorn-cake">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 26: Popcorn Cake</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-26-popcorn-cake">Episode 26: Popcorn Cake</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> This week’s episode covers the dangers of assuming a new prospect’s bedroom dynamic based on personality clues, the wonders of popcorn cake, when to drop the ‘L’ bomb, and whether or not adding a third to your marriage is a good plan. Joel and Cat answer your relationship and marriage questions, one serious matter at a time.

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Episode 25: COVID Companions https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-25-covid-companions Mon, 20 Apr 2020 07:26:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=162 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-25-covid-companions#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-25-covid-companions/feed 0 <p>How to keep a burgeoning relationship going strong during the pandemic, whether or not to…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-25-covid-companions">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 25: COVID Companions</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-25-covid-companions">Episode 25: COVID Companions</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> How to keep a burgeoning relationship going strong during the pandemic, whether or not to become COVID Companions with the person you’re dating, sexual acts that are most likely to pass on contagion, how to get your partner to open up when they’ve shut down, and when and how to bring the pros into the marital bedroom. Nothing like a quarantine to create a stockpile of relationship questions, but Cat and Joel take them all on, while taking everything else off.

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Episode 24: True COVID Colours https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-24-true-covid-colours Mon, 13 Apr 2020 07:29:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=158 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-24-true-covid-colours#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-24-true-covid-colours/feed 0 <p>Joel and Cat take on their first live episode and chat about how much of…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-24-true-covid-colours">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 24: True COVID Colours</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-24-true-covid-colours">Episode 24: True COVID Colours</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel and Cat take on their first live episode and chat about how much of your sex life to share with your friends, how to save a marriage when there’s a gaping moral divide and how trying times reveal the true nature of your partner’s character.

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Episode 23: The Perfect Marriage https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-23-the-perfect-marriage Mon, 06 Apr 2020 07:16:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=154 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-23-the-perfect-marriage#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-23-the-perfect-marriage/feed 0 <p>This episode tackles how to keep unwanted in-laws away from labour and delivery, hitting the…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-23-the-perfect-marriage">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 23: The Perfect Marriage</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-23-the-perfect-marriage">Episode 23: The Perfect Marriage</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> This episode tackles how to keep unwanted in-laws away from labour and delivery, hitting the ideal number of date nights, and Joel and Cat describe their idea of the perfect marriage. For each other.

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Episode 22: Ovulating Vicariously https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-22-ovulating-vicariously Mon, 30 Mar 2020 07:20:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=151 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-22-ovulating-vicariously#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-22-ovulating-vicariously/feed 0 <p>Cat and Joel dissect how to give up on being right, whether or not to…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-22-ovulating-vicariously">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 22: Ovulating Vicariously</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-22-ovulating-vicariously">Episode 22: Ovulating Vicariously</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Cat and Joel dissect how to give up on being right, whether or not to get knocked up for the in-laws and how to define what cheating on your partner actually means. Episode 22 provides the kind of solid distraction you need right now; unpacking other people’s marriage problems.

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Episode 21: Pandemic Hall Pass https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-21-pandemic-hall-pass Mon, 23 Mar 2020 07:10:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=146 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-21-pandemic-hall-pass#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-21-pandemic-hall-pass/feed 0 <p>Joel and Cat tackle your COVID 19 marriage questions. If this doesn’t brighten your self-isolation,…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-21-pandemic-hall-pass">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 21: Pandemic Hall Pass</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-21-pandemic-hall-pass">Episode 21: Pandemic Hall Pass</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel and Cat tackle your COVID 19 marriage questions. If this doesn’t brighten your self-isolation, then you should probably put the kids in front of a grating, animated musical and have a quickie near the furnace.

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Episode 20: The Matrimonial Closet https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-20-the-matrimonial-closet Mon, 16 Mar 2020 07:03:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=142 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-20-the-matrimonial-closet#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-20-the-matrimonial-closet/feed 0 <p>Gay porn and straight husbands, how to talk to your teenage kids, Joel’s crisis of…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-20-the-matrimonial-closet">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 20: The Matrimonial Closet</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-20-the-matrimonial-closet">Episode 20: The Matrimonial Closet</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Gay porn and straight husbands, how to talk to your teenage kids, Joel’s crisis of cool and the all-important topic of hygiene. The world feels different, but here at I Do and I Don’t, marriage problems stay the same.

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Episode 19: Dating – Sad and Tired https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-19-dating-sad-and-tired Mon, 09 Mar 2020 07:09:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=137 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-19-dating-sad-and-tired#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-19-dating-sad-and-tired/feed 0 <p>Joel and Cat help listeners to dip their toes in the online dating pool, reason…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-19-dating-sad-and-tired">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 19: Dating – Sad and Tired</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-19-dating-sad-and-tired">Episode 19: Dating – Sad and Tired</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel and Cat help listeners to dip their toes in the online dating pool, reason with a partner who thrives on drama, and throw out a few tips to make sure your relationship is worth investing in for the long haul.

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Joel and Cat help listeners to dip their toes in the online dating pool, reason…Read MoreEpisode 19: Dating – Sad and Tired Joel and Cat help listeners to dip their toes in the online dating pool, reason…Read MoreEpisode 19: Dating – Sad and Tired I Do and I Don't 137
Episode 18: Four Levels of Foreplay https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-18-four-levels-of-foreplay Mon, 02 Mar 2020 08:05:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=134 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-18-four-levels-of-foreplay#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-18-four-levels-of-foreplay/feed 0 <p>Joel and Cat share their top three tips to keep your sex life interesting, the…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-18-four-levels-of-foreplay">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 18: Four Levels of Foreplay</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-18-four-levels-of-foreplay">Episode 18: Four Levels of Foreplay</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel and Cat share their top three tips to keep your sex life interesting, the key pieces of knowledge you need to support a partner who is a trauma survivor and their unique take on whether or not to go to bed angry.

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Episode 17: Fill Your Own Whole https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-17-fill-your-own-whole Mon, 24 Feb 2020 08:05:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=129 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-17-fill-your-own-whole#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-17-fill-your-own-whole/feed 0 <p>In this episode Joel and Cat talk about impossible to please spouses, slips in fidelity…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-17-fill-your-own-whole">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 17: Fill Your Own Whole</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-17-fill-your-own-whole">Episode 17: Fill Your Own Whole</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> In this episode Joel and Cat talk about impossible to please spouses, slips in fidelity with blasts from the pasts and whether or not soulmates actually exist.

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In this episode Joel and Cat talk about impossible to please spouses, slips in fidelity…Read MoreEpisode 17: Fill Your Own Whole In this episode Joel and Cat talk about impossible to please spouses, slips in fidelity…Read MoreEpisode 17: Fill Your Own Whole I Do and I Don't 48:07 129
Episode 16: Purity, Presence and Punishment https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-16 Mon, 17 Feb 2020 08:05:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=124 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-16#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-16/feed 0 <p>In this episode, Joel and Cat debate living together before marriage, how to build trust…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-16">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 16: Purity, Presence and Punishment</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-16">Episode 16: Purity, Presence and Punishment</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> In this episode, Joel and Cat debate living together before marriage, how to build trust in a new relationship, and the dynamics of dominance and submission.

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In this episode, Joel and Cat debate living together before marriage, how to build trust…Read MoreEpisode 16: Purity, Presence and Punishment In this episode, Joel and Cat debate living together before marriage, how to build trust…Read MoreEpisode 16: Purity, Presence and Punishment I Do and I Don't 1:00:05 124
Episode 15: Butt Pat https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-15-butt-pat Mon, 10 Feb 2020 08:04:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=120 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-15-butt-pat#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-15-butt-pat/feed 0 <p>Out of control step kids, traveling the world while co-parenting and co-dependent in-laws who won’t…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-15-butt-pat">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 15: Butt Pat</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-15-butt-pat">Episode 15: Butt Pat</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Out of control step kids, traveling the world while co-parenting and co-dependent in-laws who won’t get off the couch; Joel and Cat
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Episode 14: Fluid Science https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-14-fluid-science Mon, 03 Feb 2020 08:08:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=115 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-14-fluid-science#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-14-fluid-science/feed 0 <p>In this highly-informative episode, Joel and Cat tell you everything you ever wanted to know…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-14-fluid-science">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 14: Fluid Science</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-14-fluid-science">Episode 14: Fluid Science</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> In this highly-informative episode, Joel and Cat tell you everything you ever wanted to know about female ejaculation, and invite listeners to beat the winter blues with their own experiments. Some other stuff also gets discussed, and it’s pretty good too.

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In this highly-informative episode, Joel and Cat tell you everything you ever wanted to know…Read MoreEpisode 14: Fluid Science In this highly-informative episode, Joel and Cat tell you everything you ever wanted to know…Read MoreEpisode 14: Fluid Science I Do and I Don't yes 57:00 115
Episode 13: Mommy Issues https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-13-mommy-issues Mon, 27 Jan 2020 08:01:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=113 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-13-mommy-issues#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-13-mommy-issues/feed 0 <p>In lucky episode 13, get to know Joel and Cat on a deeper level. Plus,…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-13-mommy-issues">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 13: Mommy Issues</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-13-mommy-issues">Episode 13: Mommy Issues</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> In lucky episode 13, get to know Joel and Cat on a deeper level. Plus, learn how to divide household tasks in a spiritual way, deal with your partner’s toxic friends and get clear on the rules of fair fighting.

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Episode 12: Second-hand Meat https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-12-second-hand-meat Mon, 20 Jan 2020 08:01:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=108 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-12-second-hand-meat#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-12-second-hand-meat/feed 0 <p>What happens when spouses can’t agree on how much time to devote to hobbies, how…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-12-second-hand-meat">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 12: Second-hand Meat</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-12-second-hand-meat">Episode 12: Second-hand Meat</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> What happens when spouses can’t agree on how much time to devote to hobbies, how to spend money, and where to put a well-lubed finger? Stick with Joel and Cat and you’ll learn more than you ever wanted to about how to keep your marriage healthy and adventurous.

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What happens when spouses can’t agree on how much time to devote to hobbies, how…Read MoreEpisode 12: Second-hand Meat What happens when spouses can’t agree on how much time to devote to hobbies, how…Read MoreEpisode 12: Second-hand Meat I Do and I Don't yes 46:29 108
Episode 11: OK Boomer https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-11-ok-boomer Mon, 13 Jan 2020 08:01:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=105 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-11-ok-boomer#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-11-ok-boomer/feed 0 <p>In this episode, Joel and Cat talk about sex toys, power couples, staying fit and…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-11-ok-boomer">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 11: OK Boomer</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-11-ok-boomer">Episode 11: OK Boomer</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> In this episode, Joel and Cat talk about sex toys, power couples, staying fit and keeping things interesting. Actually, if you just combine all of those, there’s no chance your marriage will get boring.

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In this episode, Joel and Cat talk about sex toys, power couples, staying fit and…Read MoreEpisode 11: OK Boomer In this episode, Joel and Cat talk about sex toys, power couples, staying fit and…Read MoreEpisode 11: OK Boomer I Do and I Don't yes 45:01 105
Episode 10: Ugly Kids https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-10-ugly-kids Mon, 06 Jan 2020 08:15:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=101 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-10-ugly-kids#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-10-ugly-kids/feed 0 <p>Joel and Cat welcome in a new decade and weed through controlling exes, inappropriate in-laws…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-10-ugly-kids">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 10: Ugly Kids</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-10-ugly-kids">Episode 10: Ugly Kids</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel and Cat welcome in a new decade and weed through controlling exes, inappropriate in-laws and spouses who only want to practice making babies.

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Episode 9: Mechanic Confusion https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-9-mechanic-confusion Mon, 30 Dec 2019 08:05:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=94 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-9-mechanic-confusion#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-9-mechanic-confusion/feed 0 <p>Joel and Cat tackle when and how to talk about sex, the mechanics of navigating…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-9-mechanic-confusion">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 9: Mechanic Confusion</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-9-mechanic-confusion">Episode 9: Mechanic Confusion</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel and Cat tackle when and how to talk about sex, the mechanics of navigating exes who are still in the picture, and the business of being in business with your lover.

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Episode 8: Muckle on in the Fjord https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-8-muckle-on-in-the-fjord Mon, 23 Dec 2019 08:00:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=92 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-8-muckle-on-in-the-fjord#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-8-muckle-on-in-the-fjord/feed 0 <p>In this very special episode, Joel and Cat serve up a heaping dose of almost…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-8-muckle-on-in-the-fjord">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 8: Muckle on in the Fjord</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-8-muckle-on-in-the-fjord">Episode 8: Muckle on in the Fjord</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> In this very special episode, Joel and Cat serve up a heaping dose of almost professional holiday marriage advice on how to navigate annoying family, give gifts that will keep on giving and get your halls decked and your bells jingled. 

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In this very special episode, Joel and Cat serve up a heaping dose of almost…Read MoreEpisode 8: Muckle on in the Fjord In this very special episode, Joel and Cat serve up a heaping dose of almost…Read MoreEpisode 8: Muckle on in the Fjord I Do and I Don't yes 1:05:56 92
Episode 7: Spoons!! https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-7-spoons Mon, 16 Dec 2019 08:21:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=86 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-7-spoons#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-7-spoons/feed 0 <p>Joel plays the angel’s advocate in a discussion about trauma, Cat suggests a woman hijack…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-7-spoons">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 7: Spoons!!</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-7-spoons">Episode 7: Spoons!!</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel plays the angel’s advocate in a discussion about trauma, Cat suggests a woman hijack a plane and both of them agree that mutual desire of spoon play is very important! 

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Episode 6: I Can’t Talk About Poop https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-6-i-cant-talk-about-poop Mon, 09 Dec 2019 08:00:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=82 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-6-i-cant-talk-about-poop#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-6-i-cant-talk-about-poop/feed 0 <p>Joel and Cat get real deep as they take on being present in relationship, moving…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-6-i-cant-talk-about-poop">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 6: I Can’t Talk About Poop</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-6-i-cant-talk-about-poop">Episode 6: I Can’t Talk About Poop</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel and Cat get real deep as they take on being present in relationship, moving through divorce and adding kink to the bedroom. You’ll never look at bananas the same way again.

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Episode 5: Slight Bidet Attachment https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-5-slight-bidet-attachment Mon, 02 Dec 2019 08:20:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=78 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-5-slight-bidet-attachment#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-5-slight-bidet-attachment/feed 0 <p>When’s the right time to level up a relationship? What is the T-Rex fighting style?…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-5-slight-bidet-attachment">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 5: Slight Bidet Attachment</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-5-slight-bidet-attachment">Episode 5: Slight Bidet Attachment</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> When’s the right time to level up a relationship? What is the T-Rex fighting style? When is it okay to steal your partner’s wallet? All of these burning relationship questions are answered in Episode Five.

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When’s the right time to level up a relationship? What is the T-Rex fighting style?…Read MoreEpisode 5: Slight Bidet Attachment When’s the right time to level up a relationship? What is the T-Rex fighting style?…Read MoreEpisode 5: Slight Bidet Attachment I Do and I Don't yes 51:44 78
Episode 4: Too Many Popsicles https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-4-too-many-popsicles Mon, 25 Nov 2019 13:17:14 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=70 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-4-too-many-popsicles#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-4-too-many-popsicles/feed 0 <p>Cat and Joel talk about abandonment, attachment, codependency and coconut chocolate. Oh, and there are…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-4-too-many-popsicles">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 4: Too Many Popsicles</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-4-too-many-popsicles">Episode 4: Too Many Popsicles</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Cat and Joel talk about abandonment, attachment, codependency and coconut chocolate. Oh, and there are a lot of popsicles in this one too!

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Cat and Joel talk about abandonment, attachment, codependency and coconut chocolate. Oh, and there are…Read MoreEpisode 4: Too Many Popsicles Cat and Joel talk about abandonment, attachment, codependency and coconut chocolate. Oh, and there are…Read MoreEpisode 4: Too Many Popsicles I Do and I Don't yes 42:07 70
Episode 3: Sharing Brownies https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-3-sharing-brownies Mon, 18 Nov 2019 08:00:00 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=68 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-3-sharing-brownies#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-3-sharing-brownies/feed 0 <p>In this episode, a listener grapples with which basket to put her eggs in, another…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-3-sharing-brownies">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 3: Sharing Brownies</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-3-sharing-brownies">Episode 3: Sharing Brownies</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> In this episode, a listener grapples with which basket to put her eggs in, another couple explore branching out into the world of consensual non-monogamy and Joel and Cat unpack the complexities of 69.

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In this episode, a listener grapples with which basket to put her eggs in, another…Read MoreEpisode 3: Sharing Brownies In this episode, a listener grapples with which basket to put her eggs in, another…Read MoreEpisode 3: Sharing Brownies I Do and I Don't yes 47:35 68
Episode 2: The Monkey and the Entrepreneur https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-2-the-monkey-and-the-entrepreneur Mon, 11 Nov 2019 08:00:57 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=63 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-2-the-monkey-and-the-entrepreneur#respond https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-2-the-monkey-and-the-entrepreneur/feed 0 <p>Joel and Cat tackle a long-term relationship morphed into the friend zone, the pros and…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-2-the-monkey-and-the-entrepreneur">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 2: The Monkey and the Entrepreneur</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-2-the-monkey-and-the-entrepreneur">Episode 2: The Monkey and the Entrepreneur</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Joel and Cat tackle a long-term relationship morphed into the friend zone, the pros and cons of ‘sex-friends’ and an in-depth look at love languages and lady boners.

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Joel and Cat tackle a long-term relationship morphed into the friend zone, the pros and…Read MoreEpisode 2: The Monkey and the Entrepreneur Joel and Cat tackle a long-term relationship morphed into the friend zone, the pros and…Read MoreEpisode 2: The Monkey and the Entrepreneur I Do and I Don't yes 59:28 63
Episode 1: What’s Her Instagram? https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-one Sun, 27 Oct 2019 01:58:06 +0000 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/?p=19 https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-one#comments https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-one/feed 1 <p>Husbands who can’t be honest, kids who leave you exhausted and a pair of libidos…</p> <div class="more-link-wrapper"><a class="more-link" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-one">Read More<span class="screen-reader-text">Episode 1: What’s Her Instagram?</span></a></div> <p>The post <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow/episode-one">Episode 1: What’s Her Instagram?</a> appeared first on <a rel="nofollow" href="https://joelvanvliet.com/idoandidontshow"></a>.</p> Husbands who can’t be honest, kids who leave you exhausted and a pair of libidos that may not be a match. In this first episode, Cat and Joel talk about staying together for the kids, keeping up intimacy despite the kids and what to do with a new lover who won’t practice making babies.

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